Hi all,

been all over the place recently and havent been at home much so am only catching up to mails, forums etc.

I have no access to scales atm which I think is probably a blessing lol. I am back to home tomorrow so will try to be at least partially sensible before my new weigh-in on wednesday.

I havent moved much at all since february, a small loss yes but nothing decent. There is a reason for this. I find myself in the same position ( nearly ) now as I was back in September.

This is driving me mad as I promised I would never let myself be brought here again, but the woman that brought me to hwf in the first place lol has swept into and swept out of my life again and I feel like i am bouncing with the flotsam and the jetsam again. I found /find myself blindly eating crap and drinking the wrong things.

So i have been a right misery-guts :) the world feels like its collapsing around me, my heart is broken, I can't sleep and I feel like a blobby slob who cant get off his arse :)I can do it, I know I can but I am just very down and need a slap I think.

Nice to see so many friends again :)

Righ, I am so very sorry... I hope the hurt goes away and that you are able to rise up and start new quickly. Huggs

things will get better soon enough, as long as you let them get better :) I know from experience, if you dwell on something like that, as much as it hurts you, it can drag on for months and really affect all areas of your life. You have to make the decision to accept it, move on, and not look back. Exercising should help, it usually makes me feel quite a bit better when i'm feeling down. Best of luck and i'm here for ya if you need a friend Huggs

Aw Righ - I'm sorry about your situation. I agree with Shy exercise will help with the frustration (and who knows may help find you the real lady of your dreams) Another thing that helps is not bringing the "crap" to eat into the house. It's so much harder to resist once it's there (I'm speaking from experience we are still clearing out all the goodie leftovers from the weekend when we had people over - at least some cake went with dh to work, lol) Huggs

Righ, I am sorry you are feeling so bad lately Huggs

You have lots of support here!!

Hey thanks all, Huggs

see now I remember why i loved the forum so much - such bloody lovely people :)

I'm ok really just these long bright mellow evenings make you feel like you shouldnt be in front of a pc but down the beach sitting on a dune with your arm round someone, it just rubs it in hehe I want rain and miserable weather l

All the crap food has been evicted - well there wasnt that much and i have decided not to pop the cork on that wine.

See you soon, hopefully a little less of a moany too lol.

Huggs Huggs Huggs Huggs Huggs Huggs Huggs Huggs Huggs Huggs Huggs

I'm sure you need all those hugs and more! and deserve them!

Just think how far you have come and you certainly are NOT a blobby slob!

I hope you start to feel better really soon! When I read your post I really felt for you and your situation...I hope life soon brings everything you deserve! Huggs

Hey Righ, exercise is the key...get those endorphins pumping and you will feel better. Sorry to hear you have had a tough time but sounds like your resolve iswell and truly there so stick with it. You will be right back on track in no time. :)

Awww Righ I'm sorry! We are here if you need us! Huggs Hey most men would be jealous in your situation. Your the lone man in a group of hot women!!! That should make you feel better already! :D :D

:lol:

dead right Limecrush, it's like that dream I had.....but I cant tell you about that ;)

You nut!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

LMAO! :lol: :lol:

Hey Righ.......I just broke up with someone less than two weeks ago too so I can relate to how crappy you are feeling......I guess the most important thing to remember is that everything happens for a reason.......it is so cliche but I honestly believe in it........and we have to pick ourselves up and better ourselves so we can feel better and get out there and enjoy life instead of moping around.......it's funny that I decided to get back into this after my break-up and not while I was with someone.......I guess we just get comfortable? At least I did........but I'm ready to beat this flub out of my body and it looks like you already have! So smile! You look great, from what I've read so far on the forum you seem like a super super sweet guy and whatever lucky lady realizes your worth, will be the one who will make you happier than you ever dreamed of being! Huggs

Sorry to hear that, Righ. I really hope you feel better soon. I think in situations like these it's best to keep yourself busy so your mind is on other things. I agree, exercise and just the feeling that you're in control again should make you feel better. Huggs

LOL!

Hope you're feeling better soon. Huggs

Thanks Huggs

You're all right of course, I'm feeling more like myself now I have gotten into my first week of really trying again.

Onwards and upwards :rolleyes:

LOL :lol:

Wednesday morning weigh-ins again :)

OK I'm showing a loss of 2.2lbs against my last ticker - :WoooHooo:

I know its even better than that though, cause I had a sneaky weigh-in last Thursday and was closer to 219 so I reckon I have dropped close to 4lbs this week.

I was expecting it after a good week of no cheating and getting back into gear again.

Feels good !! :D

That is so great Righ!! What an accomplishment.

You deserve a big

:DanceParty: :DanceParty: :DanceParty:

:RockOn:

:D Thanks Cherri

:HappyDance: lol I like this one

you are welcome!

I like these new smileys

gotta love this guy though :RockOn: LOL

hehe they are great

That's awesome, Righ! :D
Doing the happy dance for you :HappyDance: lol

Thanks Sapphire :) seeing the Happy Dance does make me smile even more lol

Righ, how wonderful! Imagine what you could do if you used the rowing machine! :P hehe

:HappyDance: :HappyDance:

lol Purps... Righ, I hope you don't get nightmares of the rowing machine! :P

ROFL Purrrple , there really is no escape is there :lol: :lol: :lol:

Great Job, Righ!!!!! You rock! :RockOn: (had to use one of the new smilies, ;) )

fantastic righ! glad to see you are back on track. :DanceParty:

WOOOT!!! Totally awesome job Righ on the pounds down!! :HappyDance:

Awesome job Righ!!

Thats a great loss Righ! :DanceParty:

Woah awesome loss Righ! Ok...what's the secret? Tell all, stop holding out!

Hey all,

no weigh-in today, got a work call yesterday and am in rainy Glasgow for a few days at least. So dodgy hotels and long days ahead for me - and no scales !

Been a good week though so I feel good - fingers crossed I will be done by Sunday or Monday so back to weigh by next Wednesday !

Good luck all in the week ahead ;)

LOL - Maybe I should have had a "lack of scales" today too! Stay safe on your road trip (dodgy hotels??? lol)

have a good time in glasgow! i've heard its maybe not that nice, but not sure i trust the source of that information anymore :lol:

thanks for checking in with us! :huggs:

:hello: Be safe, try to have fun and see ya when you return!! :huggs:

Take care Righ :huggs: See ya next week!

Have fun and a safe trip home! Hurry back! :huggs: